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Posted by Ashley Robinson | Mar 4, 2020 2:00:00 PM

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They love to win, they love to shine, they love to get up and move: they're Aries.

Aries is the first sign in the zodiac, ruled by Mars, and swathed in the element of fire. While you may be aware of Aries' general personality traits, you might be wondering how Aries fares in romantic relationships with other astrological signs.

If you're asking yourself, "What are Aries compatible with in terms of relationships," then keep reading: we'll paint a full picture of Aries compatibility with other signs by covering the following in this article:

  • Aries' core traits
  • What makes a good and bad match for Aries
  • A ranking of Aries' compatible signs from least to most compatible (so you can know the Aries best match and Aries worst match)
  • Four key takeaways for Aries compatibility

Keep reading to learn everything you need to know about Aries compatible signs!

 

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There's a lot to learn about what it means to be an Aries. (Like, did you know they're really competitive?)

 

Aries' Core Traits

Before we talk about Aries' compatibility with other signs, you should know a little about what it means to be born under the sign of Aries.

As the first sign in the zodiac, Aries spans the days from March 21 to April 19. Aries are determined, sociable, confident, passionate, and highly motivated. This fire sign is also a cardinal sign, ruled by the red planet, Mars, which is named for the Roman god of War.

Like their symbol, the ram, Aries dive with reckless abandon into any new experience, challenging situation, competition, or conflict. This confidence and passion draws others to them and gives them command of groups of friends, teammates, or coworkers.

On the flip side, Aries' bullheaded ways tend to leave little time and space for working through the details, which means they sometimes act before they think.

Despite their susceptibility to angry outbursts when things don't go their way and determination to the point of foolishness, Aries make fantastic companions for those who are in search of spontaneity, passion, individuality, and relentless optimism.

But trust us: there's a lot more to learn about what makes an Aries tick. Make sure you check out our complete guide to Aries' traits, talents, and personalities here.

 

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Aries' outgoing nature and adventurousness can make them really popular. But they tend to look for some pretty specific things in a friend or partner, like intelligence, a love of life, and the ability to keep focused.

 

What Makes a Good Match for Aries?

The best way to identify an Aries' best match is by looking at the core character traits that an Aries finds attractive in a partner. If you're wondering, "Who are Aries compatible with," read on to learn more!

 

Trait 1: Passion

Aries love an equal partner who approaches most things in life with plenty of passion, so star signs who exhibit a similar joie de vivre are usually great matches for an Aries.

Because Aries' passionate nature can strike some as a bit intense, Aries feel safe and understood in relationships with those who can match their passionate intensity. When an Aries' passion is met with warm-heartedness and goodwill, the sparks can really fly.

 

Trait 2: Intellectualism

While Aries aren't particularly known for intellectualism themselves, this is a trait they tend to value in a romantic partner. Aries love encountering new ideas, so star signs who possess a more intellectual nature can be fascinating to Aries. They may see a partner's intellectualism as a wellspring of new adventures and possibilities, which can keep an Aries intrigued for the long haul.

Being with a partner who's more of a thinker can also keep Aries in check when their impulsivity gets out of control. Romantic partners who can show Aries a variety of logical options or suggest alternative choices can help keep them on track and out of trouble.

 

Trait 3: Openness

Aries are known for their openness and honesty, and they love to see these traits reciprocated in a romantic relationship. Aries struggle to understand people who are passive, secretive, or unclear about their needs and desires. That's why this star sign is drawn to others who are willing to put what they're thinking and feeling out in the open.

While Aries crave transparency in romantic relationships, they want to get straight to the point while they're baring their souls. Aries appreciate a partner who doesn't mince words, and will repay a romantic partner's clarity in kind. There's no beating around the bush for these passionate people!

 

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Do you love an adventure? Then you might be a good partner for an Aries.

 

Trait 4: Adventurousness

Aries seek an adventure partner in their romantic relationships. People who are out there achieving, competing, and trying new things are the ones who will catch an Aries' eye.

People who have high adrenaline hobbies—like motor racing or mountain climbing—can be a solid match for an Aries. Similarly, a teammate or coworker who Aries always seems to be competing with for the top spot could actually make a harmonious match. In other words, people who have just as strong of a drive to achieve and experience new things as Aries do will be able to keep pace with them!

 

Trait 5: An Eye for Detail

Aries possess a strong determination to achieve their goals. While they have the passion and drive to go after their hearts' desires, Aries can sometimes overlook important details that can make or break their success. That's why a partner who has an eye for detail can be a huge benefit to a bullheaded Aries.

Keep in mind that partners who are too focused on minute details can get on Aries' nerves. But a partner who can help Aries see the big picture without bogging them down is a perfect match!

 

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Aries have a strong personality, so a bad match can make both people miserable. Here's what Aries should avoid in a friend or partner!

 

What Makes a Bad Match for Aries?

Just as there are traits that are most ideal for an Aries' best match to possess, there are traits that just won't jive with an Aries' high intensity personality. Here are the things Aries don't want in a partner!

 

Trait 1: Obsession With Structure

Aries live for adventure, thrills, and spontaneity. They seek out new experiences, which means they also require a certain degree of flexibility in order to thrive.

The bane to Aries' thrill-seeking ways? Obsession with structure. Romantic partners whose lives must adhere to strict plans, rigid schedules, and tightly structured day-to-day routines can frustrate an Aries and hamper their desire to go with the flow. Having to constantly suppress their zest for living in the moment can bring out Aries' infamous temper, so a partner who's obsessed with living a highly structured life isn't a good match for Aries.

 

Trait 2: Sensitivity

If you know an Aries, you're familiar with their commitment to being straightforward, open, and honest. You probably also know that, while they almost always mean well, Aries' truth-speaking can sometimes cause hurt feelings. An Aries isn't necessarily going to tiptoe around the feelings of their more sensitive friends!

When a friend, family member, or partner responds to Aries' directness with tears or broodiness, Aries tends to get flustered and withdraw. This fire sign appreciates people who are thick-skinned and respond to Aries' brutal honesty with strength. An Aries is prepared to take what they dish out, responding positively to a partner's pushback or directness. What an Aries doesn't like is having to compromise their honesty and directness to tiptoe around another person's feelings.

 

Trait 3: Inactivity

Aries life motto is "on the go," so romantic partners who are living the homebody life don't mesh well with this star sign. Aries wants to be on the move and pursuing the next activity, challenge, or competition. In romantic relationships, Aries loves being with a partner who is right there with them chasing after the next big thrill. That's why people who would self-diagnose as a couch potato would be better off avoiding romantic relationships with Aries.

 

Trait 4: Slow Pace

Similar to Aries' intolerance for inactivity is their dislike for a slow pace. Some star signs like to approach their lives methodically or cautiously. These values lead those who hold them to living life at a slower pace, rejecting impulsive decision-making. Since an Aries wants to live life in the fast lane, they may feel held back by partners who want to stop and smell the roses at every turn.

 

Trait 5: Prudishness

Aries isn't afraid to be who they are in all aspects of a romantic relationship, which works best with a partner who also enjoys openness. Aries can tend to feel misled or misunderstood around people who are more private or closed off.

Additionally, more modest types may not feel comfortable moving at the pace set by Aries' uninhibited passion, which can extinguish the fires of love in a romantic relationship with Aries. People who are just as comfortable in their skin and in their feelings as Aries make a better match for this star sign.

 

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Astrology charts can be confusing...but not ours! Check out our Aries compatibility chart to see if your sign is a good match for these fiery, feisty people.

 

Who Is Aries Most Compatible With? An Aries Compatibility Chart

Every sign in the zodiac has different strengths and weaknesses when paired with Aries in a romantic relationship. Our list below breaks down Aries' compatible signs from low, to medium, to high in terms of overall compatibility, compatibility for a passionate romantic relationship, and compatibility as communicators:

Sign Pairing of Aries with: Love Friendship Communication Overall Compatibility
Aries Medium Medium Medium Medium
Taurus Medium Low Medium Medium
Gemini High High High High
Cancer Low Medium Low Low
Leo High High Medium High
Virgo Low Medium Low Low
Libra Medium High Medium Medium
Scorpio Low Medium Low Low
Sagittarius High High Medium High
Capricorn Low Low Low Low
Aquarius High Medium Medium Medium
Pisces Low Low Medium Low

 

We'll explain Aries' compatible signs in more depth below!

 

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Aries gets along with Geminis, Leos, and Sagittarians like...well, peanut butter and jelly!

 

High Aries Compatibility: Gemini, Leo, and Sagittarius

There are three star signs with whom Aries' compatibility naturally soars: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius. These pairings are most likely to result in relationships that are harmonious, passionate, and built to last.

 

Aries and Gemini

Gemini is the first star sign that has high compatibility with Aries. When Aries and Gemini get together, their relationship is built on friendship, intellectual chemistry, and relentless pursuit of a good time. It's important for an Aries and Gemini pairing to keep each other in check when the shared traits that they adore in each other get out of hand . . . like impetuousness or stubbornness.

The good news is that Gemini's endless energy is a perfect match for Aries' adventurous spirit! Remaining active, channelling their energy into good causes, and pacing themselves can keep an Aries-Gemini relationship on the right track instead of snuffing out at the first sign of conflict.

 

Aries and Leo

Leo and Aries are both fire signs, so it makes sense that the combo of their burning passion and high-achieving natures are a recipe for success. These bold individuals make an even bolder duo, juggling an array of responsibilities and interests that stimulate their insatiable desire for physical and intellectual activity.

In this whirlwind of energy, it's common to see Aries-Leo couples respecting each others' independence. However, since both star signs crave the spotlight, it's important to make an effort to celebrate each other's individual victories and avoid competing. Cheer each other on and be patient with each other's haphazard attempts to express emotions, and a Leo-Aries relationship can be one for the ages.

 

Aries and Sagittarius

Last is Sagittarius and Aries, a classic case of birds of a feather. Aries and Sagittarius can form a quick bond based on their natural independence, desire to explore, and spunkiness. These two respect each other's need for autonomy, and they experience a thrilling connection that runs on both partners' never ending thirst for new knowledge and ideas.

A Sag and Aries pairing must watch out for unwieldy tempers, however, and work together to overcome their shared tendency to overlook potential consequences before charging into situations. When at their best, these two Fire signs share a warm rapport and are confident in love.

 

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While an Aries definitely can get along with these signs, their relationships may take more work.

 

Medium Aries Compatibility: Aries, Taurus, Libra, and Aquarius

There are four star signs with whom Aries' compatibility can go either way, depending on how both parties in the relationship choose to handle their strengths and weaknesses. These star signs are Aries, Taurus, Libra, and Aquarius.

 

Aries and Aries

Since Aries are searching for an SO who mirrors their passion and determination, it should come as no surprise that Aries can sometimes match well with fellow Aries. Two Aries can find intense passion in a physical relationship, but they may err on the side of selfishness and disregard the other's needs when they arise.

In terms of communication, an Aries couple will value their mutual willingness to tell it like it is, but their stubbornness can cause frequent conflict if their opinions clash. In other words, Aries' shared values and communication styles can set the foundation for a healthy relationship...but if both Aries frequently exhibit their weaker qualities, these relationships can take a turn for the worse.

 

Aries and Taurus

When Taurus pairs with Aries, their relationship can be characterized by depth and complexity. Both signs find intense connection through physical intimacy, but Tauruses like more emotional connection in their relationships. This requires detailed and often heavy conversations that may frustrate Aries.

In terms of communication, Taurus tends to respond to Aries' stubbornness by going stoic and withdrawing to hide their sensitivity. Nevertheless, Aries and Taurus both value strong verbal and physical strength, and they tend to enjoy these qualities in each other. Ultimately, Aries and Taurus can experience a fulfilling relationship when both parties work hard to address their individual issues and find the patience to listen to each other.

 

Aries and Libra

A Libra/Aries relationship has a strong potential for longevity when both partners set aside their insecurities and strive to understand each other. Libras and Aries feel a very strong physical attraction, but they must work hard to connect through genuine emotion and respect of each other's boundaries.

Communication can be exhausting between these two star signs, with both a Libra and an Aries trying to make up for the other's weaknesses. When Aries and Libras are at their best, they form an unbreakable bond, but both parties have to learn from each other's values and work on their own self-esteem.

 

Aries and Aquarius

These two signs communicate well and trust each other, but they may experience stress when it comes to physical intimacy. Both signs bring a lot of energy to a physical relationship, but their mutual struggle to show their emotions in intimate moments can leave both partners feeling unloved.

Despite these challenges, Aries and Aquarius can have a healthy relationship in other ways, like their shared excitement for new adventures and enthusiasm for sharing and discussing new ideas. While this can be a pairing that lacks emotional tenderness when the two partners are not in tune, Aries and Aquarius can form passionate relationships built on mutual trust and shared interests.

 

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The core traits of Aries and these zodiac signs tend to conflict, which can make their relationships a little rocky!

 

Low Aries Compatibility: Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces, Virgo, and Scorpio

We'll start by briefly explaining why Aries are typically considered to have low overall compatibility with these signs: Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces, Virgo, and Scorpio.

 

Aries and Cancer

In a relationship between Aries and Cancer, both parties typically have to tiptoe around each other. Cancers often require gentleness and tenderness in romantic relationships--qualities that don't come naturally to Aries. Aries and Cancer may also struggle to build trust because of Cancer's difficulty understanding Aries bold communication style, which Cancers may see as overly aggressive.

Ultimately, both Aries and Cancer are highly emotional, but in completely opposite ways. That makes it difficult for these two signs to find common ground, productive communication strategies, and harmony.

 

Aries and Capricorn

Capricorns and Aries find most of their issues in regard to physical intimacy. The clash between Capricorn's Saturn and Aries' Mars can result in both parties feeling incapable of understanding and fulfilling the other's desires. An Aries' boldness can make a methodical Capricorn feel overwhelmed!

In terms of communication, Capricorns value rationality and can tend to disregard Aries' ideas because they seem rash. Aries may find Capricorn's insistence that the people in their lives be constantly industrious to be annoying and boring. This pairing can lead to ongoing conflict that is made worse by stubbornness in both parties.

 

Aries and Pisces

While Pisces and Aries can balance out some of each others' strengths and weaknesses, these two signs have low compatibility for physical intimacy. As a water and a fire sign, that makes sense! Pisces are the poets of the zodiac and tend to be introspective and quiet, which means that Pisces and Aries can struggle to communicate effectively about their desires.

Aries may also find Pisces' changing emotions and susceptibility to disappointment to be too complicated. Pisces and Aries share a mutual difficulty with opening up and building trust, leading to relationships that struggle to last.

 

Aries and Virgo

When Virgo and Aries pair up, many challenges can arise. Virgos require lots of patience, attention, and verbal communication, which is frustrating for the always-ready-to-dive-in Aries. Because Aries likes to live in a bit of a whirlwind of chaos, and Virgo lives for order and intentional understanding, a pairing between these two can lend itself to fights about the same recurring issues.

A Virgo also tends to be more interested in stability and order than a sometimes foolhardy Aries. Without Virgo allowing Aries their freedom, and Aries making an effort to bring some order to their life, a Virgo-Aries pairing will struggle to succeed.

 

Aries and Scorpio

Scorpio and Aries tend to be opposites in terms of their desires for physical intimacy, and often express those desires in ways that clash. Scorpio often overcomplicates things, while Aries strives to simplify communication, emotional connection, and physical intimacy.

Aries may also find Scorpio's exhaustive communication style over-the-top and unnecessary, and Scorpio might perceive Aries resistance to talking things out as shallowness. Even though Scorpios' and Aries' intentions are good, they're often talking at cross purposes...which leads to fights and hard feelings.

 

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The Big Takeaways for Aries

While the signs of the zodiac can help us learn more about ourselves and others, it's important to interpret analysis of Aries compatibility in relationships in healthy ways. Now that you know about Aries' compatible signs based on analysis of astrology, keep in mind these four key takeaways for Aries zodiac sign compatibility.

 

#1: You're Not Doomed to Fail

Having "low" or "medium" compatibility based on a person's star sign doesn't mean relationships between Aries and those signs are doomed to fail: it just means those pairings may need to put in the effort to make their relationship work!

 

#2: Embrace Your Weaknesses

Being aware of and willing to admit to and address your weaknesses can help create harmony in relationships between Aries and other signs that they're known for low or medium compatibility with.

 

#3: Good Astrological Matches Don't Always Work

Having "high" compatibility doesn't mean relationships will automatically work out or be easy with those star signs: it just means that there is lots of potential for an amazing relationship between your personalities.

 

#4: Know What You Need

Just because you're "supposed" to like a certain type of person based on your zodiac sign doesn't mean you will. Your lived experiences, culture, and personal desires can change the way you approach relationships. Our best advice? Know the core traits you're looking for--and what your core traits are--and place more stock in those that you do in what sign a person is!

Overall, it's important for Aries to remember that you and your partner get to decide whether a relationship can work. Even though your star sign might tell the story of some of your quintessential traits in romantic relationships, you're more than your horoscope, and it's important to develop the ability to be more than your sign when relating to someone you care about.

 

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What's Next?

Curious about compatibility information for other signs? We've written up similar analyses for Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Libra, and many more!

Want to learn more about why Geminis are a good match for Aries? Be sure to read through our full guide to Geminis to get the full scoop.

The zodiac is based on Roman mythology. Did you know that the Roman gods are closely linked to their Greek counterparts? You can learn more about that here.

Maybe you're new to this whole zodiac/astrology thing. That's okay! We've put an introduction to the zodiac together just for you.

 

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Ashley Robinson
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Ashley Sufflé Robinson has a Ph.D. in 19th Century English Literature. As a content writer for PrepScholar, Ashley is passionate about giving college-bound students the in-depth information they need to get into the school of their dreams.



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